Mom is on my Mind

I’ve been thinking about Mom so much the last few days. Don’t get me wrong, I think about her everyday but lately it’s more than usual. I think there are several reasons why.

1. Mother’s day is coming up. Every time I hear a commercial about it, I cringe. I have such a pain in my heart and I just don’t want to celebrate it this year.

2. My daughter’s wedding is in 39 days and I need my Mom. I need her input on so many things concerning this wedding.

As I was thinking about her, I read through some of my posts I had written about her last year.

Mom was a church secretary after retiring from the U.S. government. She loved her job as a church secretary and considered it a ministry.

One of the ladies she worked with sent her this letter and I wanted to share it for those of you who might not have read it. It reminds me again why I love her so much and of course why I miss her.

Here is the letter:

Dear Wanda,

I dreamed about you a few nights ago. And in that dream, I was sitting beside you holding your hand. I was telling you all the things that I like about you.

I thought I should write them down—and send them your way.

I like your cheerfulness and sweet spirit.

I like the way you take the high road when other ways look easier.

I like the lipstick you left by the sink at church for those last minute touch ups.

I like your funny nature and your willingness to tackle new things.

I like your persistence.

I like the way you want everyone to “get along with each other”.

I like the way you love your family—your husband, children, their spouses and your grandchildren.

I like the way you put others first. You are a very loving, giving and gentle person.

I like your spunk.

But most of all, Wanda, I like your commitment to our Savior. Your trust in Him is apparent in all that you do. I’m sure that this love and trust will help you through this most difficult twist in your life.

I wanted to title this note to you, “ The 10 things I Like About You, Wanda.” I’m cutting it short at just 10 things, but the message is there. I love and miss you and hope you’re doing okay. Please know that I think about you and pray for you often. Who knows….maybe I’ll see you in my dreams again soon—You Looked Great!!

Mom was all that and more!!! She has left a legacy for us, her family and friends………I hope she knows how thankful we are!!!

Mom, Courtney and me last summer in Charleston on vacation. We had no idea three months later Mom would be gone.

Have a blessed day!

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  1. A beautiful tribute to your mom. You know, I feel it is so important to share our thoughts and feelings daily with those we love and care for ~ no one knows what might be in front of us. The “firsts” are always the most difficult when you’ve lost a loved one…Mother’s Day is still difficult for me and my mother passed away in April, ’03. Losing one’s mother just leaves a HUGE void. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

    Brightest blessings,
    Pat

  2. I just found your blog I haven’t been able
    to got through it yet. But I did come to
    this post and my heart felt for you. I have
    been thinking and crying so much this last
    week.
    I miss her so much I lost her 1.5 years ago
    and it seems like yesterday.
    Losing your mom is just more
    than one could imagine. She too had cancer.

    What a wonderful thing for someone to write about her.

  3. No one can ever take the place of our moms and my heart goes out to you. I’m sure Wanda would have loved helping with the wedding (and who’s to say she’s not?) Love and prayers to you.

  4. What an inspiring mother! Her life still speaks to those of us who never got to meet her. Praying for your tender heart at this time. Love Janine

  5. Oh how I miss her so much. She was all of those things and more. I want to be like her so much, but I feel I miss the mark everyday. I don’t know how she did it. If I could just have an inch of the Faith she had, I could move mountains. I know you need her so much right now, Lou, but you are doing a great job with the wedding, and Dad, and all of your other responsibilities. I know Mom is so proud of you! I sure am.
    Love you.